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    june 6 2016
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  1. I saw that some people had posted on here their stories and they helped me deal with what I'm going through. I think if I share my story maybe people can add some feed back for me or I could help someone. My boyfriend and I had been dating for over a year and we lived together as well. Everything was absolutely perfect between us. Everything about us just fit so perfectly. I had found my perfect person and he agreed. We had plans of getting married in the future. It was his first time moving out so he did struggle with himself sometimes. Financial things and just emotional things I guess. On our one year I noticed he was acting distant. Which isn't like him. He didn't have any plans or get a card or anything which is weird for him. So I let it go and never thought anything of it. Before the one year he mentioned it would maybe be best if we lived in different homes for a bit because he thought things were different. But things change when you love in together. So we talked and it was totally fine so I thought after that. He told me "in sorry. I love you so much and I'm not going anywhere" so June 5th he had to run to the hospital for his grandfather who had days left to live. I got upset because he didn't want to include me in things. We've never had a fight before and that day we just argued a bit. Both misunderstanding each other. He didn't talk to me for a day or two then let me know his grandfather had passed. That was all. I sent him messages telling him I love him. Whatever I could. He was very quite and never responded. A week later he called me after I asked him to and we talked totally normal and everything was good. I asked him what was upsetting him the most and we talked. I told him how I felt about him and the things I wanted to fix about how I handled things the day he left for the hospital / his parents. He said while crying "where was this all before?" After talking a bit he said he had to hang up and call me back. So he did. He then broke up with me over the phone. Saying "I still love you. I just can't do this anymore" while crying. I didn't understand. We were so in love and happy. He said I wasn't there for him when he has pushed me away saying he didn't want me to be. But I still tried to be. He didn't talk to me for two weeks. I sent him messages here and there to let him know I care and I love him. On his birthday I sent his gift and a card. He went behind my back and emailed my landlord the day before rent was due saying he wants off the lease and responsibility put on me.. He won't talk to the landlord or me. What so ever. His stuff is all still at home with me.. While he's been at his parents. I think they're trying to get into his head and convince him that this is best and to move back home. I think he's confused and acting out of anger and grief. Does anyone have any thoughts on this?? I'm completely heart broken and lost.
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