Hi Kay!
Your Mom sounded like a very "Feisty" and quite independent...Same as my Mom she was very strong willed and extremely independent, but at the same time she has always very dependent on me. It was very difficult as you mentioned, watching it get stripped away...I totally understand that for sure! My Mom did not remember anything I told her either, but when I was there she was so very excited!!! I could visit her and get home and within 15 minutes the facility (also a dementia care unit) would call me because my Mom wanted to talk to me...She would ask me where are you? Are you coming to see me? When I would tell her I just left she did not believe me...So I would go back to see her! Ha,ha...I was a sap when it came to my Mom!
My Mom did not even know she had a house either, she totally forgot! She even forgot her husband (my Dad, he passed 20 years ago this year) she was afraid of his picture because she did not know him . Most of the time she knew me, there were a couple times she was afraid of me...but after about a half hour she knew me again, she'd grab me and hug me and say "when did you get here sweetheart"? Boy I MISS those hugs:(
I seen a lot of things my Mom would do or things she would eat etc, that she NEVER in a million years would in her right state of mind...You nail polish story is CUTE!!! and very familiar, My Mom would also be ever so careful and proud , she would go show everyone and of course at the same time volunteer me to polish their nails too..Ha, Ha!!!
Soooooo many wonderful stories we could tell huh Kay?!? As I sit here typing of course I'm crying...Its part of it I guess!
What a truly horrible disease....very devastating!!!
Your past don' t exist... the present is confusing... and your future has no meaning! Well that really stinks!!!
Again,Kay it has been nice talking with you! Thanks again for listening and sharing!
I hope I haven't babbled too much:)
Have a great day
Monica