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catsdogs4me

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  1. It is so hard to say goodbye to a beloved companion animal and to make a decision when the quality of life is not at the high standard we set as responsible and loving pet people. Yet it is precisely because we have set such a standard that we cannot let them suffer. Euthanasia was once defined in a single phrase that says it is "when we take their pain and make it our own". That is never more true than when we face the agonizing decision about what is right for our faithful companions. My heart goes out to both of you who write today of having to make that decision to help your beloved pets to a final peace. To grieve deeply and let the tears come shows the depth of our love and the heartache that does not go away even when the head is dictating what the right decision is to be. I, too, believe the spirit is never far away from us. There is a heart connection that transcends the physical presence and the limits of time. It is always there, and our beloved animals reside in a special chamber of the heart never to be separated from us. Visiting that chamber is sometimes very painful in the aftermath. It is may not be a safe haven at first, but the memories of the best times can never be silenced. In time they line the path to that special place, and the voyage there is not so painful. Smiles replace tears and the joy of knowing that your beloved companion has been and always will be unique and wonderful to this world can help the healing process. We never get over the loss one hundred per cent; nor should we have to. We can be thankful for the time we have had and the difference we made in the lives of our pets and for all that they have given us in return-- love, loyalty, devotion, companionship and much more. I hope those memories will lead you as you go along your way. May hope for the future join those memories to help you bring a balance back to your life. Seek the support of those who truly understand whether it be family, friends, or people in a discussion forum such as this. You deserve no less at this difficult time of life. Know that you are not alone in your journey. I wish you peace.
  2. Corinna, It is very understandable that you would feel as you do with the sudden and tragic loss of your beloved dog. Anyone who tries to minimize your hurt and pain with "just a" talk has no sense of the bond between we humans and our companion animals. Your relationship with your dog is precious and important both now and always. I believe you will keep him forever in a very special place in your heart, and the day will come when the memories will bring smiles through your tears. You deserve the respect and support of those who truly empathize with your loss. Your grief is genuine and valid, and avoiding those who will be of no help to you at this difficult time is something you may wish to do. You will find caring and understanding people in this discussion group and also hopefully among your friends and family. I am so sorry for your loss and wish there were an easier way for you to get through these hard days. It helps to know you are not alone. Our animals offer a unique and unconditional love, a special relationship, and are the truest of friends. Your dog has certainly done that for your and more. Take the time you need and the steps that work best for you to begin the healing process. I wish you well. LG
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