My friend (age 40) suddenly lost her husband (age 41) on Jan 9th. It was very unexpected and was the result of some unknown medical issues he had.
She began texting a man she knows on Jan 20th. She had wanted to have a relationship with him in the past, before her marriage. He was not ready at the time because of a divorce and she moved on. Within about 6 weeks of her husband's death, she and this man began doing things together with both sets of children. She says this is ok because they were friends in the past and the children knew each other when they were younger. I am concerned about her mental state and that she may be avoiding going through the grieving process by replacing her spouse with this man. Should I be concerned and how can I support my friend? I feel like she is relying too heavily on this one person and I don't want her to end up hurt more deeply in all this.