Loveysatori

Im going through the same thing, though different....I've been with this guy for 2 and half years and we were planning on getting married this year in December on the day we met. The difference his mother hated me because she felt i was taking her son away from her and she got upset when he listened to me and not her. I got in a fight with his sister because she was mad i was caring for him to much so his family shunned me.......and its been that way for 2 years. We had the worst up and down relationship it was never steady but we were always strong and help on eachother and never broke up. Just last Thursday his mother died of cancer but not because she was to ill but the hospital decided upon themselves to let her go on overly medicated her causing her to suffocate and die. He has been so cold to me saying rude things saying he wish me and my family died and he never wants to see me again he got so angry when i was on the phone with my mother saying not to talk to her while infront of him, he tells why would i do that knowing his mother died.....he says very evil things to me about my family and that he wants to kill them......he keeps telling me everyday that he doesnt want me and forces me to take him to his family's house and when hes there he would call me up in the middle of the night wanting me to pick him up.....and i do i go get him. I love him so much he is my first boyfriend and the one to take my gem, all i wanted was to be with him and he mistreats me because of his mother. I dont know what i should do, it kills me to see him so down my heart cant bare the pain anymore