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Broodge

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  1. I don't know the state your marriage was in before this but events like this can start a rift in even the most solid marriages that can lead to even more loss. You can act to prevent this by finding a counselor now, either couple or indivdual depending on what feels right. Grief Healing also has links to local resources. The way I see it, there are 2 tasks in front of you - one is feeling the whole ball of wax: the anger, your own guilt, the pain of imagining what your pug experienced, etc. This has to do with your own grief, not necessarily interaction with your husband. The second is one I recommend to keep the grief from creating more in your relationship. That would be to sit in a quiet place once a day and imagine yourself as your husband and what he might be feeling. Then notice in what ways it is different from what you feel, or perhaps the same in some places. Do you think it is less, more, or the same as what you are going through. In such a devastating situation, you need all the care you can get. Maybe at some point, you can give it to each other. My deep sympathy on your loss.
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