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Kirby

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  • Your relationship to the individual who died
    Owner
  • Date of Death
    Dec 11 2019
  • Name/Location of Hospice if they were involved:
    N/A

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  • Your gender
    Female
  • Location (city, state)
    Ogden
  1. I I picked up my Kirby’s ashes today and it was so hard and sent me into a major spiral of grief. How do you live with the fact that you beloved pet is never coming back? I have cried for hours now set me right back to the day we put him down. I was feeling a little better, but today was a major blow.
  2. Thank you that actually helps me a lot. I loved my cat so much I really tried to do everything I could to make him healthy and happy. He’s left a giant hole in my heart.
  3. Thank you, I’m struggling with my decisions and guilt. I know he was so sick that it was his time but I just keep kicking myself for not taking him in. I knew he was not ok I could just tell, so why did I wait??We spent 5 years taking care of him, giving him insulin shots every 12 hours. My husband and my whole life revolved around him we planned everything around him and yet I was never resentful about it because he gave me so much in return. He got me through some really tough times by just being there and sitting with me. My heart is broken over him.
  4. I am going through the same thing. I had to put my cat my boy down 3 days ago for diabetes related health problems. I feel so guilty and sad it takes my breath away. I knew there was something wrong with him but I had just had him into the vet a week before and they couldn’t find anything wrong, so I told myself if he’s not better by the evening I would take him in the next day and went to work. By nighttime he was bad so we took him into the emergency vet and by the next morning we had to put him down. I feel like it’s all my fault for letting it go. I killed him by going to work.
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