Juliet

I’m sorry she’s dealing with this too!! It’s so sad especially for kids involved! I feel for her and what she’s going through-it definitely hurts!! Hoping she will find some kind of peace soon and eventually the love she deserves.

I too am going through this and don’t understand it. My mom passed away in November and the guy I’ve been with for nearly 7 years (we also live together and have a 20 month old son), just abandoned me emotionally. The first week following her death he was great, cried with me, did housework, helped with kids, etc. I went back to work a week later and it just fizzled. He went back to “normal” and didn’t check in at all, didn’t ask me how I was doing, nothing. Just slowly pulled away. As the weeks went on I was in a terrible struggle and I confronted him to understand why he was just hanging me out to dry. Literally no response. Instead he grew resentful of me for asking and kept backing away. Fast forward to Jan and he broke up with me after the holidays. Not really an explanation except “my tank is empty”. This is extremely hurtful and evil to me, given my last three months and now I have to find a place for my kids and I to live. I don’t understand AT ALL how someone could do this?! I’ve gotten through the worst of my storm emotionally but he didn’t even wait for the storm to pass.