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Jeyrah

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    7/30/2020
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    Culpeper, VA

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  1. He is gone. Came and packed up his things while I was at work and left. I just have no words. The kids are devastated. It has definitely been a weekend of healing. No communication on co-parenting. Just silence.
  2. I went to the funeral today. I sat in the back. It was hard to see everyone hurting and wanting to comfort them. He called me last night and asked me not to come to the reception. I understood. He told me he was packing and leaving by the end of the week. He is moving in with his mom and dad to take care of them just as his brother did. I did not get angry with him, just listened and took in all he had to say. When the conversation was over I cried. I am taking it day by day rehearsing what I will say to the kids. It will be a life change for sure, but you can only go up from here. Thank you everyone for the advice. It has really helped to talk about how I am feeling.
  3. Kayc, Thank you for the response. Those are great resources and I will definitely utilize them. Day day 4 with no contact. Tomorrow is the funeral. My family said I should just go. I am damned if I do and damned if I don’t. They suggested I do not take the kids just in case he shuts us out there too and I can’t protect them from it.
  4. I have known my boyfriend for 8 years and have been in a relationship 4. His family and I have been very close. Holidays and Italian Sunday get togethers. I have gotten to know each one of them like they were my own family. Drop ins and life happens and we were always there. My boyfriend I always call him my better half... his younger brother tragically died onThursday morning. He and I were fighting Wednesday night before the accident. Thursday morning I got the call while in a conference. He let me know what was going on and that his brother died. I left work immediately to be there for him and the family. He told me not to come and he will let me know if and when he needs me. Then I get a call from him late told me family only during this grieving time and ghosted me. I found out through Facebook the funeral arrangement are for Tuesday. I asked him for his blessing to bring our kids and my mom. I still have not had an answer. Should I go.. I have been reading other posts and no answer is an answer. I’m angry because I have been left to grieve by myself. I loved him too. I am angry because I have no answers if and when he is coming home. I want to be here for when he does.. but I am let down at the end of each night. I am angry he is reading my texts and just not responding. I am angry because I feel I am stuck in a jail cell cut off from our world and from our family. I am just so angry and I feel selfish for feeling this way.
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