Sorry that was a typo, i meant to say 47...but still really young. I am so sorry for your loss and for your daughters loss, it is never an easy thing to deal with. It seemed like a really brutal way to go, but somehow she still made it beautiful in a way too. She knew she was going and appreciated every moment that she had left and was filled with so much love for everything and everyone. It was really hard not being there to say goodbye in person, i did talk to her through video, but it wasn't the same. I wanted to be there to hold her one last time and hug her. She told me before i left to Iowa to be with my now husband, "If i had known it was the last hug, i would have hugged harder." and i feel the exact same way.
I do have some support, my family has been supportive, my dad paid for me and my husband to stay in a hotel during the pandemic while we quarantine before the funeral and my brother has messaged me checking up on me. I do also have a counsellor that i talk to over the phone because i was going through a loss that also happened a couple of months ago before this, she has also been helpful. My husband i've noticed will sometimes expect me to roughly be over it, and although i consider myself at peace with it, i'm most certainly not over it. It's a very tough thing, that unless you go through it, you wont understand the pain it causes upon a person.
Everyone has their own grieving process, i occasionally think i'm still in denial, and sometimes it's true. I just keep pushing forward, as i like to say, and it sucks to be in quarantine.