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Denra

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  1. Look at the website: One Fit Widow. Its very real and positive. It has helped me tremendously!!
  2. Reach out to them. If your lonely, join some groups. Friends and or family sometimes have no idea what to say. They are waiting for you to tell them. My husband and I were married for 28 wonderful and fun years. We belonged to a sailing club and were active with many friend groups. It was hard at first, going without him. It has only been a year since he passed suddenly. It gets easier doing some of these things by yourself. I love our friends and family. Don't lose those connections waiting for them to come to you. Go to them! They will welcome you with open arms...they just don't know how to begin.
  3. Good morning everyone! I am new to this group. I have found comfort in the little bit that I have read so far. My husband Michael and I were married for 28 unbelievably fun and exciting years! We have one daughter who is 25. Michael dropped suddenly at work. He suffered a massive heart attack. Two men gave him cpr immediately and he woke up to talk with me on the phone twice. For that I am thankful. He survived the heart surgery but from the fall hitting his head caused a brain bleed. We took him off life support and he passed instantly. It will be a year on Oct. 21st. He died out of state. My daughter and I drove to be with him. It’s odd to say this but it was one of the most precious and tragic times of my life all wrapped into one. I’m a paralegal and went right back to work. Work at the time helped. We have a sailboat that has offered many relaxing days for me to think. What I’m feeling now is complete restlessness! I want to sell my house, quit my job and move then the next day I don’t. I guess I’m waiting for that lightbulb to go off and I will have all of the answers....thank you for listening.
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