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  1. I also wonder if he has some abandonment issues. Since I brought up the possibility of breaking up twice over the last month maybe got scared and left before he could be left. He did a similar thing to his ex and regretted it and was torn up over that breakup.
  2. Hi @kayc thank you so much for your reply, it's very helpful. I'm so sorry your ex did that over FedEx! That is cruel. How long ago was this? How are you now? It's such a hard thing to understand. The 2 days before he left things were great. He had finally gotten home from his dad's on Saturday and I picked him up at the airport. We had a great day on Sunday and he told me how much he loved and appreciated me and how happy he was to be home.Very hard to understand how someones mind flips so quickly and easily. Just a few weeks ago he was asking me to move with him and was making plans for
  3. Quick follow up to this: I had my doubts about if this was the right person and considered ending things so I'm not crushed that he's not in my life although I do miss him. I think I'm just so shocked at the abrupt and almost cruel way he went about it. Goes against everything I thought I knew about him and makes me question if he ever really loved or cared the way he claimed if it was so easy to pack up his life and leave. Now I'm left to deal with selling our things and packing up our house in the next two weeks.
  4. My now ex-boyfriend of 1.5 years broke up with me last week, packed all his things up from our house and decided to move to another state. I'm feeling really blindsided and confused at the moment. Both my ex and I are 30 years old if that matters. Story below, sorry it's a long one! I met my now ex (I'm going to refer to him as Nick, not his real name) in March of 2019 and we started taking very soon after meeting (my good friend dates his friend so we were set up on a date). At the time of meeting him I just gotten out of an 8 year relationship 6 months prior. My breakup with my ex of 8
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