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TinaML

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  • Your relationship to the individual who died
    Spouse
  • Date of Death
    July, 9th, 2020
  • Name/Location of Hospice if they were involved:
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    Female
  • Location (city, state)
    Durham,NC

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  1. Hi Kayc. Thank you very much for your sweet note and pointers to help me get through this. I am sorry for your loss and you also lost your husband as he was young. Life is busy for my friends , family as I have to find things to keep me going when I am not working. I love to watch to, read novels , I like paper crafting, so that’s on my list for tomorrow. I am trying to cook on weekends too. Thank you very much again. take care
  2. Hi Gwenivere. Thanks for your sweet note and I am sorry for your loss too. It’s a daily struggle, I am busy with work some days more than others, then I think I have no one to talk about work day like we both did in evenings. I don’t sleep good at all, I end up taking shorts naps during day when I can. I try to have a plan for the weekend to get me out of house and just moving. It’s sooo hard. As you mentioned with family there are struggles too. I am doing a zoom call with my sister and nieces tomorrow which I look forward to. My husband loved the nieces and always played with them. take care
  3. Thanks Nashreed. I agree with u in that it helps having friends. I like to read mystery novels and watch tv, that helps some. I’ll cook or bake too. I am sorry for your loss. I know that it’s not easy at all. take care
  4. Hi Kieran. Thank you for your sweet note. Snowstorm already ! You must be out west. I don’t like it getting dark early at all, gets more depressing. I say the same thing to myself “ I can’t believe this “ or I think maybe he went somewhere and is coming back, which I know is not true but I’ll tell myself that. I just never thought I would be alone this early in life but I guess there is no real time frame for death. take care
  5. Hi. Thank you for your sweet email and I am sorry for your loss too. What are some of your hobbies? Are you in NC? Do you go out with friends ? I try to make plans for weekends but I have a couple coming up and no plans, I am just going to go to a craft store in morning. I agree with u on it being difficult. take care
  6. Hello , my name is Tina. I lost my husband a little over 3 months ago unexpectedly. Everyday is a struggle but yesterday was the worst or so it seeemed. I can’t believe he is gone , we talked about doing so many things when we retire. We were married close to 26 years , it’s such a big adjustment living alone, no kids. The evenings are a struggle. at times I don’t even know how I am functioning.
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