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Jacks mum

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    son
  • Date of Death
    26.12.20
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    Female
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    Blurton

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  1. Hello, new here so I'm looking for a bit of help or guidance if anyone could offer any. My 17yr son went out on the evening of boxing day and didn't come home, this was out of character for him, we had a come home time limit of 10pm he had before pushed it to half ten but never more. I'm not going to lie and say he was an angel but he was a good boy and would always be home. His dad went out it 11pm to try and find him and his friends drove around till 3am, we started looking again at 8am thinking he would be walking home a bit the worse for wear. The incident is with the police but it does seem clear he was coming home and fell into the water near us, heading home - would have been 10 more minutes and he'd of been here, its probably obvious to people on here that as his mum I'm finding it a bit tough to deal with, people have been kind but it seems so hollow, people keep asking if we are okay but I don't ever think we will be, I am doing my best to just get through the day, the big problem I have is that his dad and two brothers (8 and 14) don't seem to be processing things, the little one cried when I told him, has been playing all his sad songs on repeat but since said nothing, the big one hasn't really cried, the police said we could have a councilor but the appointment hasn't come through as it is Christmas, anyone got any advise?
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