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kbend_

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  • Your relationship to the individual who died
    Father
  • Date of Death
    07/11/2012
  • Name/Location of Hospice if they were involved:
    NA

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  • Your gender
    Female
  • Location (city, state)
    Frankenmuth, Michigan
  1. My father passed away 8 years ago. I recently moved into an apartment with my boyfriend and my mom asked me if it was okay to date. I told her that it would be okay, that I think I’m ready for that. I don’t want her to be lonely. She got in contact with her ex boyfriend from high school and they’ve been seeing each other a lot lately. She tells me that she doesn’t want a romantic relationship with him but then shows me something different. In my head, I want to be happy for her but I also feel like it’s not the right fit. Like she’s telling me something different than what she is showing everyone else. She mentions that it might be because he isn’t my dad but I just can’t put it into words that I don’t think it is. But then I think, well why am I feeling this way specifically? Am I missing something in my brain that is actually shouting IT ISNT YOUR DAD AND ITS WEIRD and I’m just ignoring it? I don’t know how to feel or what to express with this situation and I can specifically put into words what my brain is telling me with the new guy.
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