Hello, this is my first post here, I just joined today. I wanted to say thank you for some of the information in this thread. The post about the shipwreck is very meaningful to me. Right now I feel like this
I found out that is a good image to use to help a friend understand what I am experiencing.
Also the Grief Beyond Belief site looks like a good source for understanding what I'm experiencing psychologically.
I'll be looking around and possibly posting more.