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Missmirr

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  • Your relationship to the individual who died
    Ex girlfriend to son
  • Date of Death
    3/5/21
  • Name/Location of Hospice if they were involved:
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    Female
  • Location (city, state)
    Boston

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  1. Thank you so much for your support, @kayc. Your responses have given me an unbelievable amount of peace during this time.
  2. Thank you both for your responses. What I’m having so much trouble with is that I feel like I made it about me when he’s going through so much. I wanted answers for what we were and what our plans were. We had planned on moving in together this fall- so when that was obviously not going to happen because his dad will need his help now (meaning he will need to live with his dad now) I just immediately asked him for answers. But that was so selfish of me to be asking him questions about our relationship when he just found his mom unexpectedly dead. I can’t seem to forgive myself for focusing on
  3. My boyfriend’s mom died about a month ago now. She died in her sleep, it was completely unexpected, and he was the one who found her. I was there the night it happened, and I stayed with him and his dad (his dad is 87) for two weeks after. I helped them with chores, meals, and emotional support when needed. After that my boyfriend asked for space which is when I had a really tough time. I’m already depressed and have anxiety, so the request of him to have space really rocked me. We have only seen each other once since. I went over to his apartment (he’s packing it up to move in with his dad
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