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  1. Awsun, Thank you for your reply to my post and lead me to read yours. I am so sorry for the pain you are going through, it definitely sounds like we can relate to eachother. I would love to see some pics if you are happy to share them of your lovely cat. Its amazing the impact they have on us, my boys litter tray is still sitting in the kitchen and hasn't been cleaned out yet. My family think I'm being weird as I can't part with anything, like a claw from him scratching the carpet and a wee ball of fur from brushing him. He meant the world to me, I adored him and the emptiness wi
  2. Aww Kieron it's the hardest thing to think about, treasure each moment you have ❤ take lots of photos and videos, im so glad I did this. I hope you have much longer than you may expect with your cat Thank you so much for your kind words, Oscar was my special boy and is irreplaceable 💙
  3. I found it very therapeutic today to try and draw my gorgeous Oscar
  4. I'm not very good at using a forum as this is my first so not sure how to reply to anyone individually. Thank you to everyone for such lovely replies. I definitely believe there are amazing humans in the world, but animals 100% more so! Animals don't care what we look like or anything, that unconditional love truly is unconditional. With humans that I believe can change as can be so judgemental if you don't fit into their idea of what you should be. I am so sorry kayc about the loss of your husband and your dogs and cats. The pain im feeling with my cat scares me so much I don't kn
  5. Thanks so much for the replies. Oscar was a beautiful black and white cat, I had him since he was a baby (about 8 weeks old) so I feel grateful and blessed that I had him in my life for as long as I did. He was part of a rescued litter of kittens, he came to me and fell asleep in my arms while talking to the lady we were adopting from. I believe we chose eachother, I was in love with him instantly. He was so timid, when we got home he was scared to come out of the carrier and for his whole life he stayed a timid cat as he was scared of loud noises or sudden noise. It meant alot to
  6. 2 days ago we had to put our beautiful boy Oscar to sleep due to kidney disease, he was 14 and would have been 15 this month. I feel overwhelming pain physically and mentally at losing him, I had an incredible bond with him and I am struggling with his absence in the house. I feel no one understands as I have already been asked have I still not got it together yet. Its only been 2 days!! Why do people think pets are not worth grieving, I am completely devastated. I cant eat, iv barely slept and can't stop crying! I dont know how to help myself heal, its like pain I have never felt be
  7. Your cat Skeeter was absolutely beautiful! I had a special bond with my boy Oscar and he had to be put to sleep 2 days ago due to kidney disease (he was 14, would have been 15 this month May) I believe I will be the same in years to come the pain is intense and can't imagine life without him. We have been blessed with love unlike any other and unfortunately the price we pay for it is the overwhelming grief at their loss 💔 I hope you are keeping well, I wish it didn't hurt so much. Take care x
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