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sheetal

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  1. Eav, Sorry to hear about your Dad. It feels terrible to lose someone very dear without any notice. Few minutes is too unfair. Atleast they did not suffer too much. Hope we can get through this as soon as possible. Thanks for your support. Take care.
  2. Sorry about your loss. But you are fortunate to feel him in your dreams. Hoping time heals our pain. Take care
  3. At the age of 66, my dad was a charming happy man. Never worried, always helped people and loved talking to them. He had many friends, loved his wife, children and grandchildren a lot. He would do anything for his dear ones. Always a friend to me, ready to help me selflessly, a pillar to the entire family, he worked so hard to keep us at comfort. He loved eating, watching sports and comedy movies. I used to visit my parents with my husband and 2 kids once in 2 weeks and spent the weekend with them. One night, he surprised us all, by just not responding to our voices. My dad went to bed after coming back home from a party his friends threw. Within 5 mins, my mom heard snoring loud voices from the bedroom. She rushed to the bed only to find him unconscious and did not respond to her. She was alone at home and called for help. Our neighbors barged in and called a nearby doctor and an ambulance. The doctor did CPR on my dad, he responded a little but again he started turning cold. Ambulance appeared and took him to the hospital. He was gone by the time they reached the hospital. Such a dreadful night. I live 10 km away from my parent's house. Got a call from my mom who was helplessly crying and asked me to reach the hospital. Me and my husband rushed to the hospital, me praying relentlessly for his health. On the way, one of the friend called me to say that 'he was no more'. I still feel like banging the speaker of my car that gave me this news. He had a massive heart attack. All in 10 mins, God did not give us a chance to try saving my father. God did not give a prior notice that he is going to snatch him away from us. He was all healthy and never complained of any symptoms even 5 mins before he passed out. Didn't believe until then that life can be so uncertain and unfair. Or are we the unfortunate ones? One chance or few more minutes would have given me a sense of satisfaction. Unbearable loss. I am unable to imagine life without him. I feel very guilty for not spending more time with my dad. On the other hand my mom is devastated. She cries so much. I am always around her to take care of her. I am now worried about her health too. With COVID around I am unable to take her to a check up.
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