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  1. My fiance's mother passed this year in March, he was very much a momma's boy, and right now during christmas time he is falling into a depression i cant help. I lost my dad 5 yrs ago and i know how he feels, he never really greived, as i didnt, but i had to go to grave site alone and finally let it all out and i think thats what he needs to do. He was tryin to stay strong for his kids and everyone and was too busy to greive and now its hitting him like a ton of bricks. Am i right that he needs to spend some time alone at grave site? Its affecting his everyday life, his work and our relationship. He wants to get married on what would have been her birthday this coming june but i dont think thats a good idea until he can get past christmas. He wont talk about it to me, he emails me and tells me he is dreaming of her everynight and wakes up and gets no sleep, he feels like he is loosing his mind. His oldest daughter is getting married Saturday and he dont even want to attend the funeral. I know I cant force him to greive, i have told him i am by his side and that his Dr can help, but he just ignores it all. Any Ideas?
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