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  1. Partner of 5 years mom died 5 weeks ago. The first two weeks, I supported him and he said I was an amazing support. He began sleeping on the couch so he wouldn’t disturb me as he wasn’t sleeping. We had an argument a week later because I made some stupid comment about when is he coming back to bed. Then he ignored me for a week. Eventually I asked what was going on. He was really angry. Told me I was the worst support, doesn’t know if he wants to be with someone who can’t support him. The couch gives him comfort and I’m bullying him to go back to bed. I explained I didn’t realise as I’ve never experienced grief and I was sorry. I asked what this meant for us and he told me to leave him alone. Didn’t speak for several days. Eventually I asked again for clarity of what was happening. Couldn’t answer me. I come home from work one day and he’s moved all my things out of his office. Removed all of his things from our bedroom, and purchased a bed for his office. We briefly spoke one day and he asked if I was seeing someone else and it would be okay if I was?! I walk into a room. He walks out and closes himself into his office. Some days I don’t see him at all. I don’t know what I’m supposed to do?
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