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LaLuna412

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  1. First, I would like to say how terribly sorry I am about your loss and that I along with all the others here understand what you are going through. I lost my mom on December 8, 2003. I like you feel that I am too young to be going through this situation (I am 24). Watching my mother die was the single most horrible event in my life thus far. I feel lost, but I am not alone. I have friends and loved ones to help me through this tough time. A couple of things that I can tell you that helps (at least helps me) is getting out of the house, going anywhere to help me get my mind of my problems (even if it is just for a little while). Another thing that helps is to write your feelings down, whatever seemingly crazy thoughts and feelings you are having at any moment and do not feel comfortable telling anyone write them down. I try to make sure that I read about what I am going through, which helps me to know that I am not going insane. Some days I feel as though I will make it and I will once again feel normal, then other days the pain is so real and painful that I just don't want to move. I feel lost and emotionally and physically tired. When I begin to feel like this I get out of the house and force myself to get moving. You are already taking a big step by writing your feelings down here where we can all empathize with you. You are definitely not alone if you feel that this outlet is not working for you go talk to a professional. You are suffering from a great deal of loss (your mom and boyfriend) and it is too much to handle alone. There is nothing wrong with seeking professional help, because they can understand what you are going through and provide you with vital information on how to cope with your losses. I found myself going to my Dr because I was suffering from panic attacks after my mom died. Talking about the attacks and realizing that I was not dying, but grieving was obviously very helpful in terms of my health mentally and physically. Hopefully, what I have said helps a little. I wish you all the best of luck. If you ever want to talk I am here to listen. C.B.
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