Jody, I am so sorry to hear about your mother. Like you I lost my mother, best friend, on march 30,2004 very sudden. She was 52 and i am 25. I have so many questions and yet I know no answers. My mom was the best she was always giving and never asked for anything in return. We talked every night for hours on the phone and right now I could really use her advise on how to deal with this. Let me know if you want to talk and maybe together we can get through this one day at a time. Terra