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  1. This is my first time doing something like this. I am hoping someone's experience will help me, or direct me for guidance. It's all about my cats, brothers Sam and Max. I found and took in my Sam and Max when they were 3 weeks old. Now they are almost 12 years old; my first pets,my first committment, and my most cherished companions. Max was dx last week with an agressive cancer, and he is dying. He is not in pain. He is tired, and now not eating, and doing some drinking. I am going to have to help Max with his leaving me. I am waiting for the "you'll know" moment. Just as I thought it was time to plan a visit to the vet, I found my Sam curled up with his dying brother under the bed with his arm across Max's belly. Sam has been skittish around Max since he has been sick. But this scene warmed me, broke my heart and I realized that I am not the only one losing a loved one...In 12 years, Sam has not been without his brother for more than the time it takes to go the vet! How ever do I care for Sammy? However do I leave him to go out to work? or shop? or vacation? how can I leave Sam without his brother Max? Thank you for sharing with others.
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