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gyspy

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  • Birthday 12/27/1954

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  1. I keep a candle lit in my window for my daugther. We played a song "Put a candle in the window" and i have kept a candle lit for her ever since.
  2. Thank you Lori for your prayers and thoughts. This had been so hard on all the family. We are a close family and this has just ripped our hearts out. Our world is not the same. We were all looking forward to having another baby in the family. My youngest daughter, Toni, has a baby that is 13 months old and her and christys baby would have been 10 months apart. Toni was looking forward to being an aunt. I dont understand why this had to happen. But we arent suppose to question God. We just try to get through each day. I have gotten to the point where i can look at her pictures without crying now. But there is still a big emptiness in our lives that will never be filled. Christy wouldnt want us to be this sad and unhappy. I know we will be together again one day. Anyway, thank you for you support and prayers. Libby Dear Dolores, Thank you for your prayers. I am so sorry about your son. He died 3 days after Christy. I know how you feel. Our whole world has been tore apart. But at least I have 2 other children. I cant imagine having my only child die. I know i have to go on and be strong for them. I can finally make it through a day without crying now, even tho i feel guilty for not crying. But also know Christy wouldnt want us to be this sad and crying so much. She was the sunshine of our lives. She had a smile that would brighten the cloudest days. She loved life. I know she and little Lizzie is looking down upon us. and we will all be together one day. She just went on ahead. I am thankful to have had her for 31 years. I wasnt ready to give her up. But God had other plans for her. Like the preacher said at her funeral. God picked her for his spring bouquet and picked Lizzie for his babys breath. Thank you for your message. Keep in touch if you want to talk any. Gyspy92561@aol.com Thanks Libby
  3. Dear Chandrasmom, I am so sorry for your loss. I know exactly how you are feeling. I also lost my daughter march 2. She died in a car accident, was 31 years old and 8 1/2 months pregnant. This is definitly the hardest thing a parent will ever have to go through. I also replay the last few days of her live, wished i would have said more, hugged her more and told her how much i loved her and how proud of her i am. and wonder if there was anything i could have done to prevent this. Her boyfriend who was killed also, was driving the car, and she was planning on leaving him. I keep thinking if she would left him sooner, she would still be alive and what i could have done to get her out of the situation before now. I also cry at the top of the hat. She worked at a local grocery store. and i still cry everytime i go in there. I automatically look in the parking lot to see if her car is there everytime i go by the store. We just have to learn how to get through each day. I have better days then others. Some days i just dont want to go on, but then i also know christy wouldnt want us to be this sad and cry this much. In fact, the night she died, my son and i was sitting out on the deck around 4 am and he said that he felt her put her arms around him, told him she was safe and happy and for us not to cry. Well when he told me, there wasnt a breeze blowing at all, then my wind chimes starting chiming ever so softly. I feel like this was her telling us she was ok. Her and ricky was so close. Ricky stated he didnt lose his sister, he lost his best friend. I hope you are doing better soon, I will remember you in my prayers. Libby
  4. I lost my daughter in a firey car accident on March 2,2007. She was 31 years old and 8 1/2 months pregnant. This is a day I will never forget. It was the day our whole world changed. Christy was a beautiful, friendly, hardworking, loveable girl. I dont understand why this had to happen to her. She had a smile that would brighen up the darkest days. You never seen her without her beautiful smile. If she felt bad or had any troubles you would never had known it. I miss her so much. It is unbearable somedays. But you just have to try and get through each day. WE made a web site in her memory on memory of.com. christina-gore.memory-of.com. This is a real nice site. It makes us feel like we are talking to her and leaving her messages. Not an hour goes by that I dont think of her. I have never felt an emptiness or sorrow like this. I buried my mom when I was 18 in 73 and my dad died in 2002, well them was a walk in the park compared to this. Parents arent suppose to bury their children.
  5. Dear Twhittle, I am so sorry about your loss. I lost my daughter March 2, 2007 in a firey car accident. She was 31 years old and 8 1/2 months pregnant with her first child. And yes is in normal to be in a daze, and keep hoping it is all a bad nightmare. Some days I keep hoping I will wake up and this is all a dream. But nevertheless, it never happens. Christy left behind her mom, dad, brother and sister. This has really affected the whole family, which I am sure it affected yours too. I keep waiting for her to come through the back door. I can finally get through a day without crying, but not often. My neighbor was complaining because her daughter moved back home, my thoughts was you are lucky is alive and can move back home. Just pray alot and God will help you through this. I will remember you and your family in my prayers. LIbby Dear Twhittle, There is a web site memory of. com. That you can set up a memorial site for your daughter. We have set one up for our daugher. Check it out at www.christina-gore.memory-of.com. its really a nice site. Libby
  6. Bob, I am so sorry to hear about your son. I also lost my daugher in a car accident March 2. She was 31 years old and 8 1/2 months pregnant. This has been the worse time in my life, so I know exactly how you feel. I have began keeping a journal, this has helped me. or either the antidepressants..There is nothing anyone can say to make it any better. Just try and get through each day. I am so sorry again for you loss. May God bless you and your family. Libby
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