NILI

Hy clara's mom, My name is NILI, I'm so understand what you feel, I feel the same way, I feel the emptiness and I have to force myself to go on. I'm sorry you feel that way. Do you want to talk about it? to tell me about the pet you've lost? I've lost my cat four months ago, so I know what you going througe. love, NILI

It's still very hard to cope, I'm crying a lot and I'm very sad. Yesterday I went to check the grave of my cat Joey, and I found out that somebody maybe dogs digg in the grave and I saw some of his hair, and it was so painful and I started to cry and cover it with sand. It was very traomatic, because i'm still in shock that it realy happened (that the cat is realy dad), it was harder. It's very hard to wake up in the morning and remember that the cat is gone. I dont know what to do, sometime I fill that I'm loosing my mind because it's final and the cat is not coming back! I'm living alone, and it's so hard without him. He did the place so happy to be there, and now I have to run away from home so I wont fill so bad. It's so hard to cope with death that happen so sudden of someone that was so close to you.

Hy Frannie, My heart is with you. I understan what you are going through, I miss my cat Joey also so much until my stomach hearts. I also wish he will be back and I'll be happy again, it's very hard to think about it and wish for it and at the same time know that it wont happen. I know what you feel! I wish I could hug you and comfort each other, my heart is truly with you. Be strong! By, nili

Two and a half months ago, I lost my beloved cat Joey. He got hit by a car, and I was at home when it happened, I was in my room doing my buissnes and people called me and told me that the cat is injured. When I asked where is he, the woman that called told that it's where I live, but she confused me and it took me some time until I arrived, and it wan infront of the window of my room where I was, and to this day I feel so bad that I didn't notice anything. I guess some of it happened when I was listening to music by ear phones, and I don't know how much tume he was there alone with no help. I usualy used to be there for him even when he had fights with other cats. I took him to a vet, but there wasn't much he could do because I guess he had inside injury that he was bleeding inside. He was a cat who loved to be a lot outside' and it was imposible to protect him all the time. It's very hard for me to beleive that he is really dead and I will not see him ever again and he's not alive anymore, and I missed all the connection I could have had with him during the years with him. He was very special cute and beutiful. And I'll miss him forever. The pain is unbelievble. Nili

Hy Rosmary, I'm so sorry for your loss, I understand exactly what you going througe. I've lost my beloved cat - joey , also almost three months ago, and I feel so sad and lost without him. he was like a son to me, and he was so cute and beautiful. A car hit him outside, and some people called me, and called to the vet too, the vet came and we took him to the clinic, but there was'nt much he could because he had blood injury inside his boody, and he was in shock also, and he died after an half an hour later. I'm also not the same person I was, no one understand what i'm going through. most people say: "take anouder cat, it will help you", they don't understand it's not a toy.I'm going to a therapist now, so he will help me to dill with the pain that is so hard. I can't even look at his pictures yet. I will be very happy to talk to you, and we could share our emotions and help each other. Nili