Boy, can I ever relate to how you must be feeling. My Mom had a severe stroke and lingered for 7 days. I called my sister and she flew out to be here. The whole time she was here, it was all about her--never mind that my husband, children, and grandchildren where there for her daily for 25 years. Mom died at 3:18 May 1st and my sister was on a plane by 6:30am that morning. I didn't know what hit me. Mom just died and we had to worry about flights. Then to boot, the Saturday before she died, Mom's life was wiped out in 30 gallon trash bags under the guise that it was a big help to me. I'm just now realizing that I didn't have the sense to realize what the ramifications would be later. I had promised Mom that if she ever died, I would take her ashes back home. My sister couldn't even bother to pick me up at the airport. There's more yucks to the story, but yes I, too, am angry and bitter and feeling betrayed. My precious Mom must be crying tears in Heaven because she always wanted her children to remain close. People say that I should dust my feet and move on, but right now, I can't. Why can't the court intervene? Sounds to me like you are the rightful heirs to the land. Thinking about you and your frustrations. Hope your tomorrows are better. Poco