charley

I am so sorry that you have to go through all of this. I don't have all the answer for you i wish i did. All i can say to you is these images will fade. The only way i could remember my mum was her dying, that lasted for about 6 months. I still see that sometimes i wont lie to you. But most of the time now i remember her as she was before she got ill. Don't worry about failing anyone, those who love you will truly understand. You love your dad so dearly and it hurts so bad. I honestly know. Keep doing what feels right to you. Thinking of you, Charley xx

Hi shan, I totally understand how you feel. I lost my dad in 99 and my mum died indec 03. I am 24. My otherhalf isn't close to his parents and while he tries to understand he says that he doesn't understand and that if his parents died he would be upset but would get over it. I don't think that he understands that it is a constant battle for me to go. I miss my parents so much,expecially my mum as it is coming up to the 1 year anniversary of her death. I can't help but think of all the things they will miss out on. Have you got any close friends you can talk to? I confide in a few friends that seems to help me. Thinking of you, Charley

I am so sorry for your terrible loss. I understand how you feel. My dad died in march 95 ( a week before my 19 birthday) for a sudden heart attack, My mum died december 03 from breast cancer. My dad was 41 my mum was 45. The pain is so hard sometimes i feel i can't go on. Please know that there are others who know how you feel. Thinking of you. Charley x

Hi, I'm 24 years old and on the 2nd december 2003 my whole world crumbled around me. I lost my mum to breast cancer. She had been in remission for a year and then we found out that it had spred to her bones and liver. she died within 2 months. I feel so shocked because no one ever said said that there was nothing that they could do. She went in for her chemo and died the next day. I know that i shouldn't be so shocked, but i can't help it. My mum was mum best friend she was only 45 when she died. She has helped me to raise my son, who is so low at the moment. my dad died on the 13th march99 aged 41from a heart attack. I do have 1 sister but we seem to be driffting apart. I just feel so lonley. I know that i should grow up but i feel like a 5 year old lost in a supermarket.