Derek, you are very lucky. It's been 2 years since Don died and I am still going through bouts of intense sadness. My retirement was just a few months after his death and we were planning things we would do when I no longer had to worry about employees and he could take just about any time off from work. Being without a job and without him at the same time was worse. I never realized until I looked back that both losses made my sadness worse. Still feel that I have no future. My future was with him. He was so important to me. Words don't do it. I am still struggling. Some days I just don't get up. I have gotten active in a local service organization as a volunteer. I have to force myself to go but feel better when I am there. I miss Don so much. Never thought it was possible to miss someone so much. Don't mean to be a downer but it's where I am at now. I envy you. And if you can make it maybe I can too. Grace