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mollie

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  1. i just read shell's words of "fake it till you make it", and that has become my motto, as of late! i'm new on the scene here, with my dad dying just two months ago, sept. 19! i just keep trying to celebrate his life...i told him that i would, and he deserves it! he was an amazing person...i love him, and can't believe that he is really gone, but i know that all he wants for me is to be happy...so i'm seriously "faking it until i make it", and i have some great times with friends when i'm doing it! i know that i need to keep living, and really be a part of life while i'm here! thanks for these true words of wisdom...for when we forget about ourselves, and our desperate situations, we can really be here as a genuine source of strength for others! stay well and be strong!
  2. hi allalone! i am extremely sorry for the loss of your dear mom! i am going through just losing my dad, the sweetest, most amazing, comforting father ever. my dad died september 19, just two days short of his 66th birthday! we took him to hospice friday, and he died wednesday morning! words cannot express the pain i feel, and i know that everyone here know this pain! i am relieved to have found this site, and know that we are here for eachother to help get through things that maybe others don't understand, or don't want to hear! i know that i have not so great days, but i have better days too! the better days show me promise of another better day! i have eight year old twins, and i try to stay in the moment and breathe...if not always for myself, i do it for them! my husband is emotionally unavailable to me at times, when he retreats from fear, and i don't know what to do. i'm just trying to do the best i can, one day at a time...one minute at a time. i know it's corny, but concentrating on breathing and being alive is all i can do sometimes! i know that my dad, who had a strong faith in the spiritual side of this life and beyond, would want me to do the best i can to maintain happiness and peace for myself...and this is what i try to remember during this horrible grief of losing him. our loved ones' deep love for us has to be remembered, and through this we can help eachother. thanks for listening. mollie
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