Norma, Our 16 year old cat Buddy died this morning in much the same way as Kass did. While both of us loved him, my husband seems to be more emotionally devastated and goes through fits of crying and blaming himself for not being able to save him. He usually never cries but he can't seem to get a good handle on his motions-- and I think he probably needs to grieve this way. My husband grew up loving dogs and disliking cats until he took in a stray kitten 16 years ago. He formed a wonderful bond with Buddy and I haven't been able to find sufficient words to comfort him. Anyway, your words touched my heart. I know we all need to go through this grieving process but it's difficult to not have your companion with you anymore-- we look in the spaces where he should be at this time of night-- and the sadness and despair are overwhelming. I know you and your family will make it through this and all my prayers and best wishes are with you. Hannah
