I am so tired of people telling me that because I am young, I will find someone else. Have any of them ever thought that maybe I don't want to? Maybe just maybe I really loved my husband and getting rid of his memory like an old pair of socks is something I won't do. He was my second marriage and I counted my blessings to have him for the short time I did, but I wish these people would just button their lips and leave me alone. I have my children to look after, a new life to build, the last thing on my mind is finding someone else. What is wrong with these insensitive people. I loved John and I still do, for goodness sakes he's only been gone for 13 weeks and 2 days. (Sorry, I just had to rant and rave for a bit. Is there any1 else out there who has gone thru this?)