Dear Lilly, I too have not written in quite sometime. Actually I only wrote once and thought to myself, why would these people really want to hear how I feel. Well, I decided to come back and read the post because I have been feeling so lost, so alone and depressed, here I find you have written EXACTLY how I am feeling. Thank you so much for writing what I couldn't bring myself to write.I'm sure you were crying when you wrote it as I am. I too have no friends. I assume now that all the friends we had were really my husbands friends. My husband was truly my only friend. Like you, I am so alone. I even sometimes think, like you, the world wouldn't miss me. If they did, they would call or come over or something. My kids call but not as much as I would like them too. When I call them I feel as though I am interrupting their lives. I don't cry around them but I think they fear I might. I always tell them, call me anytime, you know I am always either at work or home. They know I don't go anywhere. I really can't believe my husband is gone. Married 32 years. This wasn't supposed to happen to us. I lost him Dec. 19. We were supposed to grow old together. Like you, I have the face but inside I am torn apart. I can't even talk about my husband for fear of crying in front of someone so I just keep quite. I constantly cry at home. I, like you, wonder around with this blank, deep empty feeling wondering why I am still here. What is my purpose. The only thing keeping me sane right now are my pets. They are very understanding.I know they know how I am feeling. At least they are here. Well, just wanted to write and thank you so much for writing. It does help knowing we are not alone in our feelings.