emilys mum

i am so very sorry for the loss of your daughter please feel free to mail me if you want to talk love becky ....emilys mum

Toni i am so very sorry for the loss of you children i know what my pain is like losing 1 child so i cant imagine how you must feel i am so very sorry for you and your family

i hope you are ok and that you can tell me about your loss and about yourself my name is Rebecca,i lost my twin daughter Emily on 13th March 2002 in a freak accident Emily was a wonderful young lady she saw the good in everyone and would do anything to help others which was the cause of her death, the school was low on cash and organised a sponsered spell and the kids were asked to collect sponsers and help raise money to buy the mini bus for the school to use to take the yr8s on camp, even though Emily wasnt going to camp she wanted to help,her twin sister Hanna was and is totally differant she wouldnt do it as she wasnt going on the camp so why raise money the school should have enough money in there funds,but Emily didnt see it like that she wanted to help,so on that night she went in the bath after her tea and asked if she could go across the road to the local shop to ask them to sponser her at first i said no but she got really upset and i relented so she got her shoes on and the last thing i said was mind the road,she said i will mum,she had crossed the road thousands of times!!!her older brother samuel was outside chatting to friends,Emily came out of the shop and started to cross the road when sam noticed a glistenning helmet of a cyclist and shouted to emily she stopped turn to tell sam to get losst as she though he was having her on when the young man collided with her,the next thing that happened was Sam was banging like crazy on my lounge window saying mum come quick i went to the window and saw Emily lying in the road twitching like she was having a fit,i froze!!!!!!i though she had been ran down by a car i ran the ambulance and they asked all the relevant questions i answered as you do,then i remember going out to her but not being able to get down beside her i had froze why i dont know she wasnt moving but breathing,no blood no marks nothing,then someone said she will be ok it was only a pedal cycle that had hit her,but i knew differant i knew in my heart she wasnt going to make it,the ambulance to 25 mins to get to her they put her in the ambulance i went with them but had to sit in the front they wouldnt allow me in the back,when we arrived at the hospital i heard the beeeeeeep of the heart machine so i knew but they took her into resuss and gave us a comfy room with sofas in ect..a porter even brought us tea and coffee so i knew in England you dont get this treatment unless its a life or death situation,then at 20;20pm she was pronounced dead.......sorry i cant write anymore right now will continue another time love to you love becky xxxxxxxxx http://www.Thetalkshop.org