Hi all My husband died almost a year ago and those that say we should be over it don't know what they are talking about. Grief is a very personal thing. You go along at your own pace. Now some days are better than others and I have gotten to the point that weeks go along and they are ok. But Ron's birthday was last month and it thru me into a tailspin and I feel like he just died again. Now my birthday is coming and I really dread that. But just hang in there and don't try to hide what you feel. what every emotion over takes you go with it and let it out. Come here often and post it really does help to get it all out and be among those WHO DO UNDERSTAND!!! Take care have a peaceful day. Becky