Hi Nikki & Angie, I am 30 and lost my husband about 3 weeks ago. He died of a sudden brain anurism which left me shocked and devastated. I try and find creative ways of coping with his death. I think of him all the time and miss him a great deal. I also try and think positive thoughts because I know Kevin wouldn't want me sad. I have read some literature and found ways to heal through reading or talking about experiences with others. Above all, know that you are not alone. I have been so surprised and comforted knowing that I am not alone. Reading your messages reminds me of this. Leave me a message anytime or let me know if you want to exchange email addresses, etc. I am participating in a grief support group for the first time this Thursday. Take care of yourselves, Mindy