Hi I lost my mom on January 26,2005 to cancer. She enjoyed Christmas of 2004 because she was having a good few days. However, from then on it went down hill. She suffered a seizure just after the new year and had a few okay days but then she just got worse. My daughter was very close to her so it has been very tough. I find it hard to deal with it myself never mind trying to help my daughter. I am going to a grief group in a few weeks so I am hoping it will help. I find I go through phases where I am not sleeping well but I have heard this is normal.