Hi wendy, I am trying to give parents that will deliver a child that has died or will die, examples of birth plans they could give the doctors. for instance, they are so overwhelmed that they may not know or think about important things for them and knowing of other's experience may help. For example, let's say that in your birth plan you felt important to have no doctors in the room after the birth could make another couple think, "oh yes that's what we want" etc.... I am after testimonies of what was or would have been important to you. This question applies to people that KNEW their child had or would die. Hope to hear form you. Stephanie