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Hi Barb welcome to the group, im fairly new here myself. My husband died just 6 months ago. mine was very unexpected also. I hope you find peace of mind here. Just venting can make you feel better, knowing someone else has gone through the same things you are. It is a real blessing to come here, I have found it to be so. God bless you kimb

Hi everyone on saturday me and my family went to the ocean and scattered Kents ashes. I has been a little over 5 months since he passed. I cried alot. Thank God I had my family there. It was sad, but it was powerful. But other than that it was a good thing. I felt close to Kent by doing that. This place was a very special place to him and I. It was like having him with me again. I love you all God bless kimb

Rosemary I'm sorry for your loss. I have only been a widow now just a little over 5 months. It hurts. Its not easy having to say good bye to your best friend. I don't even know how to go on myself. I guess just take it day by day, moment by moment. I go to church which helps me some. I have jesus in my heart and that helps me tremendiously. Having friends helps, and just to let someone here helps me alot. But i believe no one can ever replace Kent. God bless kimb

i don't know if any of those of you here remember me I came for awhile and i have been gone. But i finally found out why my kent died. he had heart disease and he hadn't even been diagnosed. It was such a shock to all of us in my family. He was only 49 and we thought his heart was good. Anyway I have been really sad this week. Although finding out is kinda good to know it just brings up the sadness again. But it has only been 5 months since he died. everything happened so fast! that nightmare of finding him dead and having to take care of the arrangements. i almost didnt have time to think that first week. anyway thanks of hearing me out. Feeling sad and lonely tonight we were together for 31 years such a long time. i miss him!!!! god bless kimb

kim i will be thinking and praying for you as the day approaches. I hope you find comfort here with all your friends here. God bless you kimb

hi mike im sorry to hear about janets passing. you have found a good place to come. there are so many caring people here. i have learned that myself I just recently lost my husband in april. i know about the dark place but keep coming here to just vent and support others. i think you will find it helps you. but also remember that you can look above to the Lord to help you out of that dark place God bless you kimb

Im sorry for you loss mary linda. wednesday was only 3 months for me. It was a hard day lots of crying. anyway i can relate about the smell i only have one bottle of aftershave left and it doesnt have a lid on it but i smell it every so often, but thats a good idea putting it on a pillow. i wish you blessings and comfort kimb

lily i understand your feelings, i also am a new widow. Sometimes i feel so empty. How can we go on when the one person we were closest to is gone. I dont have any answers only consolations. I can say that im praying for you and that i wish for comfort in your heart MAY GOD BLESS YOU kimb

hi all i just wanted to say im sorry for all of you that have lost their loved one. im feeling sad tonight, sometimes i feel so empty. not knowing what to do so i sleep alot, i also suffer from depression. but im lucky to have my daughter and son and future daughter in law living with me. They keep my mind off of things alot. I also have jesus in my life and he has made quite a difference to me. even though the pain is great and the lonlieness is huge. i can lean on prayer and coming here to this place is making a difference, i thank you all from the bottom of my heart blessings kimb

Kathy Please know that im praying for you on this hard day. I lost my kent only 2 months ago. I feel empty, the pain great still. I dont know what to do anymore. so much of my time revolved around of being with and taking care of him we were together 31 years. I thank God i found this place where i can come and find people who are going though feelings like me. again please know that im praying for you and that my thoughts are with you. kimb

wendy im sorry that you are going through this hard time with your daughter moving out, and with your mom so sick. Although try and stay strong, knowing that when you take care of a loved one is very rewarding. My late husband and i took care of his dad and mother before they died. we wouldnt have had it any other way. although it is very stressful and unsettling, when looking back it was very precious to be with a loved one when they needed someone most. Im praying for you blessings kimb

Kay im sorry that no one mentioned your loved ones name. It was only two months for me im so new at all of this. I guess im still in shock. The thing is though is that you remember and you still feel those feelings. may God bless you and you are in my prayers, im new here, but i can say if someone didnt mention kents name on the anniversary of his death i would be somewhat dissappointed, maybe hurt. stay strong blessings kimb

hi you must be really happy winning a rough custody battle. I know it must be worth it having your kids by your side. I wanted to thank you for the personal msg you sent me. it really means also to know there are people here who care blessings kimb

i live in merced, im so sorry to hear of your loss too. im new and just found this place as well. i really like being here and getting to know people who have gone through things like i have blessings kimb

Hi Benali, my husband died two months ago, I have stayed busy since then moving and taking care of paperwork and such. But i can say that the people around me have helped me alot. my family, my kids and my church. Keeping doing something is how i have been helped. My symphaties for your loss. Im new here also. but already im finding some help in what others have gone trough. God Bless Keep praying for me as I will for you blessings kimb

Thank you all, im glad i found this place. blessings kimb

Hi stay strong even though you have a lot of troubles. stay strong in knowing we are here for you! blessings kim

yesterday was hard for me too. Fathers day and two months exactly since my honey died. I miss him so much. I just wanted to let you know you can take comfort in knowing that we here care for you. I know its hard! i feel very sad and have alot of tension since then. maybe a glass of wine is what i need. my heart goes out to you. Its also hard to go to church because of fathers day. I know he loved being there, and now hes not there anymore. I take comfort in knowing hes with jesus. God bless

Hi jackie recently just two months ago i lost my husband and saturday was his birthday June 7, I also have depression and other mental problems, but i understand how hard it is, there is an empty place there where my best friend was. I didnt have to go into the hospital. But have been there before. my heart goes out to you. It seems you are going through alot. But you can find solace in others around you. Thats why I came here to look for some help or someone that might have gone through the same thing that I have. Stay strong in knowing there are people here who care about you. God bless

Hi I am new here, just looking for someone to talk to about my husbands recent death. He was very young only 49. And it has only been two months since he died. He just went to sleep and never woke up. i still dont know what it was. Still waiting on the report waiting waiting, it is really hard. We were together for 31 years. i just dont know how to live without him. He was my best friend. Now hes not there its very hard to go on. Thank God i do have my children and my church. just looking for other people who have gone though the same kind of thing. God bless