buzgus

Dear Marty, Thank you for your encouragement, however, there are a couple of circumstances that I have no control over. First, the country is Lithuania and suicide prevention is not developed so well yet. Second, my father is an alcoholic - not wishing to be treated or get some sort of help. Considering those two circumstances, there is really not much I can do. I dont have anyone to ask to look over him - he has a couple of family members, but they are not in close proximity to him. The saddest thing is that he does not want to be treated - in fact, during our last conversation, he told me he did not need any help. He said all he wanted was my mom. She left because of his excessive drinking and unwillingness to get help. Thank you for your reply anyway,

I just had a conversation with my father who is constantly talking suicide. He even gave me a date of his death - July 12th, the birthday of my mom. It is his revenge to everyone - mostly to mom who left because of his drinking and adultery. What am I supposed to tell him? My heart breaks, especially because I am here in States, and my father is far away overseas. So I would not be able to even attend his funeral, as horrible as it sounds. Can anyone give me an advise of how I can cope? Thanks,

I lost my cat - and the most horrible thing is that I did not get to see him again. To explain, I am from Europe, and my father is still back there. My beautiful Siamese was with him - I got to see him in February when we went to visit. Well, a week ago I called my father just to find out about his death. I was told the cat was sick for two days, so am I crazy to blame my father for not doing anything? It hurts so much to know that I am never going to see my cat again.