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Kansaswalker

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    Wichita, Kanas
  1. I, too, have this terrible empty feeling. I lost my mom on April 24. She had moved to our city a year ago to be near my sister and myself. I called her every morning, took her places, saw her every day. I feel like crying most of the time. It hurts so much. A week after mom died after a 3 week hospital stay that was a complete surprise, my sister suffered a heart attack and had bypass surgery and was doing so well. She was doing fine but when they sent her home, she had so much fluid still on her body plus her blood sugars would bottom out. She had me call the ambulance for her, but the left side of her heart was severly damaged. The cardiologist wants her to go for SS disability. She will have to let her house go and move to live with an aunt in another city. She is single. I feel so bad I can't do more for her. I would give whatever I had for her, but there are problems with my husband. My sister had a pacemaker installed and seems to be doing better, but when she moves, there will be no one here with me. I guess I need to talk to my pastor as this grief over losing mother and my sister moving soon is too much for me to bear. My dad passed away 12 years ago and it was hard. Mom, my sister and I went through it together and we have been each other's best friend. I feel like I have had to be there for everyone, but now there is no one to be here for me. Thanks for listening.
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