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  • Birthday October 7

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  • Your relationship to the individual who died
    spouse
  • Date of Death
    June 19, 2005
  • Name/Location of Hospice if they were involved:
    Eugene OR

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    Female
  • Location (city, state)
    Oakridge Oregon
  • Interests
    I've led grief groups and am active on another site as well. I volunteer in my church (Deaconess & Praise Team) I help with two diabetic sites and my passion is helping people with grief and diabetes and researching/learning about both. I love walking my dog and spending time with him! I am a retired Office Mgr./Bkpr.

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  1. MrsThornton2819

    Hi I’m new to this forum/community. I just recently loss my late husband on 3/6/2021 suddenly. I’ve gone through all

    The stages of grief but yet I’m still in that denial / shock yet depression stage . I’ve been keeping myself busy by attending school. The pain is too much I haven’t really cried (grieve ) the way I wanted to because I have to be strong for my daughter and stepson. -Shey 

    1. kayc

      kayc

      The "stages of grief" debunked as it was written for terminally ill, not for loss/grief but yes we are often in shock in the early time.  I liken it to brain trauma, it takes work/effort to get through this, to build our lives again, right now it's enough just to breathe, eat something healthy, sip some water.  

      You have children to care for and you're attending school?  That's a lot.  Keep coming here, post/read, it helps.

      I had a hard time finding this, had to look  in your activity, did not find in messaging or posts so not sure where this is.  If you post to Loss of Spouse section, we'll find it.  Hang in there, we're all going through this journey together...

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