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  1. Thinking of you and hoping you will get to be with your dad and your sister today.  Merry Christmas, George!

    1. iPraiseHim

      iPraiseHim

      I am going to my sister's this afternoon for Christmas dinner. My Dad has decided to not come because he is afraid to pass the shingles virus to us.  He has medicine and is feeling better.  This Christmas season has hit me harder than last year. The reality of Rose Anne's absence haunts me. Our weather Is warm (50s)

      I'm praying your Arly is doing better. Shalom

    2. kayc

      kayc

      Thank you, Arlie has been struggling to heal, have him on special diet, he had vomiting and diarrhea yesterday so took him off food for 24 hours, back on it this morning, waiting to see how he does.  He has been such a blessing to me, I'm glad it was me that got to be his mom as I know a lot of people would not go to the lengths I have to help him with his Colitis problems.
      I didn't know Shingles could be spread to people, I'd assumed it was secondary from Chicken Pox virus that doesn't leave our body.  Did your father have the Shingles vaccination?  I know it's not a guarantee, but lessens our odds.  I'm sorry for him, it's a painful thing to go through.
      This seemed like a Christmas that wasn't, my first one alone without my daughter.

    3. iPraiseHim

      iPraiseHim

      no, my Dad did not have the shingles shot.  He is slowly recovering but it is painfully slow.  I read that it was not contagious yet the literature with his medications said to be careful not to spread it to other people.  For some reason this Christmas without Rose Anne has hit me harder than last year.  The reality of her absence in my life is a stark reminder. I miss her so much... it hurts.  - Shalom

       

  2. Thinking of your family and praying for Noah...

  3. "

    RE: "Mitch, that's because they're hoping you'll die in Jan-Aug!"

    You responded to this statement and both were removed.  I wish you would message me if you think I say something wrong so I could get a chance to respond you.  I was joking because quite frankly our government does wish we'd die so they wouldn't have to pay us what we've worked for all our lives.  That's why their health care won't take great measures after we reach age 72.  I would never ever wish harm to Mitch, I like Mitch!  I don't wish death on anyone!  That's just totally not me!

    I'm sorry if you misunderstood me or my intent.

    "

  4. Beth,

    I'm glad your visit/trip went well. Everything you speak of sounds so familiar...the crying, the difficulty visiting places we've been together...I remember having a hard time getting groceries after George died because that was something we always did together. :) It is hard to make it through their birthdays and special days esp in the early years. My thoughts go with y...

  5. I see you just joined and want to welcome you. We all feel close here because we've been through so much together, whether young or old, or whether we've been here a short time or for years. It's a place of understanding and safety, a place you can pour your heart out and be listened to and heard. Please share your story when you are ready, we're here.

  6. I love your sense of humor...and let us hope he keeps away from Russian Bride ads! Ha!

    I posted a lengthy reply to your post...it was hard for me to open myself up like that publicly...normally I keep it privately between me and my sisters...who else could understand? I think you're handling it well & hope you have good rapport with your sister.

  7. Kim,

    I've missed seeing you on line...please let us know how you are.

    Love you!

    Kay

  8. Corinne,

    Just thinking of you and hoping your day is going well.

    Kay

  9. Kim, please let us know the outcome of your daughter's tests...when IS the test? Praying for you Hon.

    Love,

    Kay

  10. kayc

    Thanks for always being there, you're a great guy!

  11. Okay, Wendy, here's your 5-star rating for "sweetness"!

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