hi Kayc, In the bible there is an appointed time for everything. And there is a time for every event under heaven (Ecclesiastes). A time to give birth, and a time to die; A time to plant, and a time to uproot what is planted. A time to kill, and a time to heal; A time to tear down, and a time to build up. A time to weep, and a time to laugh; A time to mourn, and a time to dance. A time to throw stones, and a time to gather stones; A time to embrace, and a time to shun embracing. A time to search, and a time to give up as lost; A time to keep, and a time to throw away. A time to tear apart, and a time to sew together; A time to be silent, and a time to speak. A time to love, and a time to hate; A time for war, and a time for peace. What do you do to let the pain go away? My therapist told me to let go so I can forgive. I don´t know how to do it. I have always been so practical and objective in my life but now it seems I don´t want to react and I don´t know why. A big kiss, Gisela