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RemBritt

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  1. Hey i know that Elizabeth was not your sister. But, i lost my sister she was 12 last May 2004.... It is really hard and i know what your going threw. so if you dont mind me asking how did she pass away ? just some questions to ask you what else happened and try to help you. if you want to talk privately my email is lolipopchlck@hotmail.com... feel free
  2. Hey kelsey, Im not sure if you've read my first entry or not. Short run down im now 19 lost my 12 yr olf sister in a car accident involving me my parents sister and cousin. and some other vehicles ( more in depth in my entry) about a year ago. ITs hard. And i dont want to lie to you and tell you it gets easier. I think you eventually realize you have to go on. I have gone on with life. I have NOT forgotten my sister. Shes talked about everyday, pics everywhere and at least 10 times a day something reminds me of her. Nights are my hardest. I cant sit around at home at night. its too quiet. It was just me and my sister so i have heard its easier to have another sibling. If you dont mind me asking im curious to find out more specifics of your tragedy. Your brothers age and what took your brothers life. feel free to email me privately at lolipopchlck@hotmail.com. Im very out going and willing to talk. ( ive found it helps). I am going out of town from friday to tues. So i will occasionally check my email but if i dont get back to you jsut give me a while when i get home i will. Hope to hear form you! Keli
  3. i was just writin because it feels good. Me and my bf purchased a dog a month ago. A doxen/ chi wawa mix. he was so cute. born in april. My bf went to his apt last nite and lives upstairs. so he had to walk to car and took Jager ( the dog) with him. He walks down the stairs all the time. well i guess he lost control of himself and he feel down about two steps. My bf thought he was ok . picked him up walked to car back upstairs and put dog down. about 10 mins later or so he notcied dog wasnt acting like himself! so he picked him up and was very concerned he wasnt breathing like normal. So off to the 24 Vet Hospital. They took xrays and said he had a pulmonary contusion. ( contusion to his lungs.) my bf was hysterical, and i wasnt there at the time. so he calls me and tells me there keeping him for 24 hrs to watch him and putting him on oxygen. So they put him on oxygen put a cathader in him and kept him. They called us at about 1am and said he had passed away. There was fluid on his lungs. ( my bf doesnt remember if they said that from the beginning or not). So my little 3 month old puppy is gone. I dont know how i feel about the 24 hr vet place and wether i think they did everything they could do. This is my first puppy and im just concerned. Ive been told by many people to look into things and see what i can do or not do. Wasnt sure if anyones ever been in this situation. Im at such a loss, its hard! I just dont know what to do anymore.
  4. On May 2, 2004 i lost my 12 yr old sister. Her bday was going to be on May 22. My parents, 16yr old cousin and sister and I were in my fathers truck on way to movie from church. When a lady came over a HUGE median and flipped upside down and hit our truck on top crushed the door where my sister was and landed on car behind us killing another woman. It was very sudden, head injury. Well, let me just tell you how life has sucked. I was A senior that year in high school so as you can imagine it was very hard to finish but my teachers were jsut so great. My sister was the biggest daddies girl ive EVER met. So my dad has taken it very hard. He is a tall big police officer so to see him so torn was heart-wrenching! My sister was not only my sister she was my best friend. All my friends knew my sister and she was always with me. We went to school 30 mins away from our house. So, for that last year when she got outta school i picked her up wene to 711 or where ever she wanted to go and headed home with the music blasting having a ball. So this loss was terrible for me. She was just the best person in the world. Now i know my sisters in heaven and has many crowns for the hundred or so people that got saved at her homegoing. my grandfather is a pastor and he had enough in him to do her service and it was beautiful. He did a great job and like i said so many people were touched. I have just been at such a loss lately. its been hard. That first year was hard but there were all the FIRSTS to do and people still around. Now its just family. My grandmother has since been diagnosed with ovarian cancer and NOT good... My moms aunt passed away, great grandmother passed and my cousin was born with a genetic disorder that has left her blind and deaf, and she has little muscle tone. Just think of a 4 months old movement and thats her but shes jsut at a year! So needless to say my family that neevr had problems went from that to one thing after another. I am 19 my parents are only 37! They are tryin to have another child. So theres that and its pulling me in excitement and sadness i guess. me and my mom have talked and we both arent sure. i think tho its what my parents need.. they dont want the empty house. Sorry things are random. i had a bad day so i had to let this out there and i saw this site. so i kinda let stuff go. let me know if you have any suggestions or anything to get threw this!! thanks, keli
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