A&K Posted May 9, 2018 Author Report Share Posted May 9, 2018 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kayc Posted May 10, 2018 Report Share Posted May 10, 2018 Katie, your Ryan resembles Gracie so much, but I see differences too. What a precious bundle of joy you have in him! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A&K Posted May 10, 2018 Author Report Share Posted May 10, 2018 Yes Ry looks very much like Gracie. It sometimes hurts to see so much of her in him. But at the same time what an honor. He will know about his big sisters. All three of them. And all about Noah. Allen and I will make certain of that. Allen is back with us at the house. I am working on forgiveness and we are starting counseling next week. It’s a difficult feat. Caleb is doing well with his therapy. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kayc Posted May 10, 2018 Report Share Posted May 10, 2018 I feel relieved that the two of you will be getting counseling, that is good to hear. Someone to help you through this and help you have the best chance possible at rebuilding. My heartfelt prayers are with you both. And I'm so glad to hear Caleb is doing well! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Widowedbysuicide Posted June 21, 2018 Report Share Posted June 21, 2018 Thinking of you all and hoping that life together is getting better for all of you ❤️🙏 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adam Posted May 8, 2019 Report Share Posted May 8, 2019 Ive never done this before, a forum, that is my said it helps her. I lost my 11yr old daughter 10mos ago to the day. She was hit by a car while riding her dirt bike down the road from our country home. I was there for her last breath. I am consumed with guilt. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kayc Posted May 8, 2019 Report Share Posted May 8, 2019 Adam, I am so sorry. There are no words adequate. Katie (A&K) lost her son, he had an accident on his bicycle, he was in the hospital quite a while before he passed. It's the hardest thing in the world. Guilt is part of grief, it doesn't mean we earned or deserve to feel guilty, we just wish we could go back and do something differently, we go through all the what ifs looking for a different outcome, but it doesn't mean we did something wrong. I'm glad you were there for her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Widowedbysuicide Posted May 8, 2019 Report Share Posted May 8, 2019 Adam I am so sorry for your loss. I can't say I know how you feel. I have friends that have lost children and I can see how it has totally changed their lives. Please continue to reach out. Chatting with other families that have lost a child can help you to survive this heartbreaking loss. 🙏❤️ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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