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Loss of BErger


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We lost  our dear Berger friday... the guild i have for putting him down is unbearable...I miss him so much i look for him everywhere.. the crazy part is.. im trying to listen for him to see if he came back as a spirit, but nothing.  I cant sleep barely eat.. I do have another dog and im trying to live life for her, but i miss him so much.. im trying to occupy time but everhwere in this house all i see is him.  I dont know how to live with myself.. plz help.

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I am so sorry, it's so hard.  Guilt is common in grief, but that doesn't mean you deserve it.  You did what you felt was best for Berger.  My dog Arlie has cancer and I've elected to make him as comfortable as possible, giving him natural supplements for liver support and not put him through suffering unnecessarily just for my benefit.  He's past his average lifespan already so it wouldn't bide him much time and I want him to have quality of life for however long he has left.  Then I will have to make that hard decision we all hate.  

I hope you will read these articles...
http://media.wix.com/ugd/0dd4a5_e934e7f92d104d31bcb334d6c6d63974.pdf
https://www.pet-loss.net/guilt.shtml
https://www.griefhealingblog.com/2014/04/pet-loss-guilt-in-wake-of-euthanasia.html
Also for your remaining dog...
https://www.griefhealingblog.com/2018/06/pet-loss-supporting-your-grieving-pet.html

 

 

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