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Hello to everyone,

I have not been on line lately due to another death I have had to begun

dealing with. The man who had helped me take care of My Jack when he was ill

drowned in a pool on 7-3-06 - and I was his personal representative on his

will - The last two weeks have found me not only buried in this new grief -

but also dealing with a ton of paper work and preparations for a memorial

service - which was held last Saturday.Timmy was only 41 when he died.

I have not been able to find time to get on line and even tell you all about

all this sad news - until now.

Please know I am thinking of you all - and hope to return to the site

sometime soon.

Jacks one year anniversary is coming up on 7-31-06 - so I am trying to incorporate this fa ct into my life and deal with another tragic death at the same time.

My love to you all - and of course my best to WaltC - who means so much to each of us on this site.


John - Dusky is my handle on here

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John, dear, it's so good to hear from you, if only for a moment. Please know that you are in our hearts, and we send you our deepest sympathy for the loss of your friend Timmy. Do what you must do, take all the time that you need, and come back to us when you can. We will be here waiting for you, and looking forward to your return. You are missed.

Till soon . . . :wub:

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John, it saddens me to hear you have lost a dear friend. Know that you are always in my thoughts. It's hard to believe that I've journeyed so long with so many. Just remember you are not alone here. You are a dear friend to all of us. Your love for Jack is unending and beautiful.

Always Gene!


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I too am sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you as your "one year anniversary" of Jack's passing approaches. It is a hard time, yet I don't think anything equates with that whole first year...

Our thoughts are with you.


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Guest PattiZ54

John - Everyone here has said what I feel. I am so very sorry for the loss of your friend! Living here in Phoenix I know how many people drown in pools - it's tragic!!

As Marty T said, do what you need to do, but know that we are here when and if you need us! You must have been a wonderful friend to have Timmy entrust his worldly belongings to you! I know you are a wonderful friend to all of us. We HAVE missed you and I have wondered where you've been lately....

Take care and our hearts and thoughts are with you always.


(Charlie 6/10/58-11/16/2004; I love & miss you, Dear!)

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Dear John,

I am so sorry that you are again dealing with grief of a dear friend.

Our hearts and prayers are with you.

You have always been there for all of us when we needed support so I hope you know we all are so very sorry you must go thru this again.

Hang in there friend.


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