Forms

[kayc]

Last night I was updating my Classmate bio, and they have you fill out a form on line and mark their little choices. When it came to the part about how my life is, they give you choices, none of which fit. The one that really hit me was, "My life is on schedule, as planned." Nothing about my life is "as planned". Nothing they listed as a choice fit. They don't have one for someone who lost their spouse, the most important person in the world to you. They don't have one for someone who's had the guts kicked out of them but been made to live through it. What do you do with forms like this?! It made me want to just exit and forget the whole thing. But then, that's what I've done with life, and I'm so isolated and lonely and that feeds my depression and despair.

[Mrcelloboy]

Kayc,

I just let my feelings flow and do the best I can with the form. Sometimes I'll add a response choice of my own if i really need to.

You gotta feel what you feel.

Maury