kayc Posted July 24, 2005 Report Share Posted July 24, 2005 Has anyone else run across things that they wish they could talk about with their mate, only it's too late, it's done, he's gone, and you can't? How do you handle that? It seems like unresolved stuff is hard to handle. Anything from what they meant on something they wrote down to where they put something. And then there was my being forced out of the hospital room y the ICU staff when he was dying so I didn't get to reassure him or say goodbye...that's hard. I don't know how to accept it. It keeps going through my mind, over and over again. I know he knew my heart and surely he knows I wanted to be there...did that cause him anguish in his last moments? I can't bear that I might have caused him any more pain than he was already in! How are you handling these things? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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